What is ADAPS?

ADAPS (Alienated Dads Altogether Peer Support) is a peer-led support group for fathers affected by parental alienation. The group provides emotional support through shared experience in a respectful, confidential setting.

Is ADAPS a virtual or in-person group?

ADAPS is delivered entirely online through virtual group sessions via Zoom. This allows fathers to access support from anywhere, without the pressure or barriers of attending in person.

Who is ADAPS for?

ADAPS is for fathers who are experiencing, or have experienced, parental alienation and are looking for peer support. You do not need to be at a particular stage in legal proceedings to take part.

What happens in a typical session?

Sessions are small, facilitated group discussions. Each session usually includes a check-in, shared discussion, and a calm closing. Members are encouraged to speak from their own experience and listen respectfully to others.

Is ADAPS a therapy or counselling service?

No. ADAPS is not a therapy, counselling, or clinical service. It does not provide medical, psychological, or legal advice. It is a peer support group focused on emotional wellbeing and shared understanding.

Is the group confidential?

Yes. Confidentiality is a core principle of ADAPS. Members are expected not to record sessions or share information discussed in the group outside of it. Confidentiality may only be broken if there is serious concern about safety.

Do I need to share personal details about my children or case?

No. Members are not required to share identifying details about their children, ex-partners, or legal cases. The focus is on your experience and wellbeing, not case specifics.

Is there any cost to join?

At present, ADAPS is a free peer support group. If this changes in the future, this will be clearly communicated in advance.

How do I join a session?

You can contact ADAPS using the website contact form. A facilitator will respond with further information about upcoming sessions and next steps.

How often do sessions run?

Sessions typically run weekly or fortnightly, depending on demand. Details about session times and availability are shared once you make contact.

What if I am in crisis or immediate distress?

ADAPS is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing severe distress, please contact emergency services or a recognised crisis support provider (UK: Samaritans on 116 123).

Who facilitates ADAPS?

Sessions are facilitated by peers to ensure the group remains respectful, balanced, and supportive. Facilitators help hold the space but are not acting as therapists or legal professionals.

Can I attend just once, or do I have to commit long-term?

You are welcome to attend without long-term commitment. Some fathers find ongoing attendance helpful, while others attend for a shorter period depending on their needs.

How is ADAPS different from online forums or social media groups?

ADAPS offers live, facilitated, small-group support rather than open or unmoderated discussion. This helps create a safer, more contained environment focused on listening and mutual respect.

If you have a question that isn’t answered here, please get in touch using the contact form.